Whatever your situation—if something isn’t working or you simply want more—I’ll help you get more light and warmth into your bedroom, deepen your self-love, and enhance your pleasure and intimacy. I listen deeply, understand quickly, and connect with my clients. I’ll learn your stories, talk your language, help you fix what’s challenging you, and expand your own gifts, pleasure, and passion.

Come celebrate your intimacy

and create a Joyously Satisfying Sex Life!

• explore and reclaim your libido and passion

• increase your pleasure, sensuality, excitement

• boost your confidence and self-esteem

• reduce your stress level, including bedroom pressure

• get specific techniques for relaxation and intimacy

• learn skills for overcoming sexual dysfunction

• love your body, not be fixated on your figure or physique

• communicate what you really want and hear what your partner wants

• learn masterful techniques to heighten erotic energy

• have more fun. Have a lot more fun!

For more than three decades, as a licensed marriage therapist and certified sex therapist, I have helped thousands of people understand, enjoy, and share their sexuality with mutual delight—and I do it with informality, humor, and reassuring pizzazz. Now I’m bringing that help to individuals and couples all across the country, through online and telephone sexuality coaching.

Maybe you’ve fallen into the “we’ve become like roommates” scenario or “one of us has a misplaced libido” or simply “we’re tired of the same-old-same-old.” Perhaps you have limited sexual experience, or none, and you’re apprehensive about how to begin. You may have some performance pressure, or pain. Maybe some old unresolved resentments or traumas are humming away underground, sabotaging your trust and ease.

WHAT IS SEXUALITY COACHING?

For your sexuality to be expressed in a comfortable, safe, and exciting way, you need information, skills, and awareness of what might be getting in the way. Sexuality coaching is real-world help to identify what you want, increase your sensuality, deepen your connection to yourself and your partner, and create the kind of sexual expression you both want. It honors and strengthens your relationship, the most important ingredient for sexual satisfaction.

Here’s my philosophy: I believe in cultivating No-Fault Intimacy! You can discover reasons for sexual dissatisfaction, disinterest, even dysfunction, without assigning blame.

After we have discovered the Why of an obstacle or challenge, together we can create the How that promotes sensual, intimate sex, tailored specifically to your own rhythms and relationship.

HOW IS COACHING DIFFERENT FROM SEX THERAPY?

In many ways they are similar. My therapy approach, like coaching, is results-oriented, gives illustrations and assignments, and fosters specific behavioral and attitudinal shifts.

However, therapy often tends to look in the rear-view mirror, focusing on childhood experiences. Sexuality coaching is more short-term. We take a look at where you are now, where you’d like to go, and what is the best way to get there. We may discover and resolve some unfinished business, but we won’t dwell there.

We are colleagues as we map out your journey. Whatever your goals, we team up and develop specific ways to create what you want with a minimum of hassle and a maximum of fun. Yes, I said fun. The best outcome occurs when all parties are enjoying the process while learning valuable things about themselves and each other.

WHAT NEXT?

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